M&S were a little shy at first, but they warmed up to us. They were full of information, questions, and giving out little tidbits about themselves. I think we were both kind in in awe for the initial meeting. We were both so very excited about the next chapter in our lives.
The girls were full of energy towards the end and bouncing all over the place. We enjoyed learning all the little things about them that makes them who they are. S did quietly ask her foster mom if she could say "I love you" and she shyly did. M whispered to foster mom if she could ask if she could call us mom and dad. And we said "of course".
The hour went by so fast. There was such a build up getting to this day and now it was here. The girls and US are very excited about our dinner tomorrow night at their place. They can't wait for us to see their rooms and all their stuff.
We didn't get the big hugs and I love you's that we thought we would get. But I know that will all come in time. Maybe even tomorrow night after spending more time with them. Their eyes were big (and blue) in seeing us and learning about us. Towards the end, M whispered to me "I wish that you were my parents" and I whispered back "Your wish just came true."
Faith, I know you don't know me, but Erin (yes; sister-in-law)had told me about you and this blog! I just wanted to leave a note and let you know how amazing your story is! I am so impressed with your difficult journey and yet amazing result. It inspires me to not be afraid to pursue similar avenues. As a current social service worker that works with children who have been severed from a home, you are my idol! I love to see amazing Mom's like you, and Dad's like the hubby, so ready and craving these two precious girls to be yours. I hope to meet you all one day, and until then - enjoy the new family! I know it won't be easy, but I can promise it will be worth the wait and struggle...for you all! Congrats to all four...no I guess six of you at least!
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